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I wish I’d known about the work of Kevin Skinner, PhD, when I first found out about the other life my partner led. The one as a sex addict. This […]

“No problem is solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” – Albert Einstein It’s been way too long since my last blog post. Partly, I’ve been slowed […]

“No problem is solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” – Albert Einstein Every year around the anniversary of the death of my spouse, I pause to […]

I recently conducted some rather extensive research on the signs and symptoms that can help women tell whether or not their husbands are sex addicts, the results of which you […]

To pick up the thread of my last post, “Looking Back,” there are two important things I want to share about how I survived the early, heavy, stupefied months following […]

I recently wrote a blog post called “Cruisin’,” in which I discussed vulnerability and disappointment over the patterns my relationships have taken since my partner died. They replicated our history […]

I heard one of my favorite Three Principles teachers, Sandra Krot, on a webinar the other day. She slowly and carefully explained thinking and thoughts and feelings as explained by […]

This is my fourth spring since finding out about my partner’s other life as a sex addict for the 27 plus years we were together. I assumed my relationships and […]

I recently relocated to a small town and invited a member of the local Chamber of Commerce out for coffee to briefly explain what I do: provide online help and […]

Have you ever had one of those blog posts you knew you needed to write – in fact, you very much wanted to write – but you struggled to just […]