I wish I’d known about the work of Kevin Skinner, PhD, when I first found out about the other life my partner led. The one as a sex addict. This […]
Lessons I’ve Learned the Hard Way … So You Don’t Have To! (Part 2)
“No problem is solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” – Albert Einstein It’s been way too long since my last blog post. Partly, I’ve been slowed […]
Lessons I’ve Learned the Hard Way … So You Don’t Have To! (Part 1)
“No problem is solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” – Albert Einstein Every year around the anniversary of the death of my spouse, I pause to […]
19 Ways We Unconsciously Support and Enable Our Partners’ Sex Addiction
I recently conducted some rather extensive research on the signs and symptoms that can help women tell whether or not their husbands are sex addicts, the results of which you […]
To pick up the thread of my last post, “Looking Back,” there are two important things I want to share about how I survived the early, heavy, stupefied months following […]
I recently wrote a blog post called “Cruisin’,” in which I discussed vulnerability and disappointment over the patterns my relationships have taken since my partner died. They replicated our history […]
What Do YOU Have to Be Grateful For?!?
I heard one of my favorite Three Principles teachers, Sandra Krot, on a webinar the other day. She slowly and carefully explained thinking and thoughts and feelings as explained by […]
This is my fourth spring since finding out about my partner’s other life as a sex addict for the 27 plus years we were together. I assumed my relationships and […]
I recently relocated to a small town and invited a member of the local Chamber of Commerce out for coffee to briefly explain what I do: provide online help and […]
Do the “Holidays” Ever End?
Have you ever had one of those blog posts you knew you needed to write – in fact, you very much wanted to write – but you struggled to just […]